Time heals all wounds
Apr. 4th, 2014 02:09 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Of course, this is at once a complete lie and a truth entire, depending simultaneously on your definition of "heal" and of "wound" and, for that matter, of "truth".
Mary Oliver says:
Ashes to ashes and dust to dust: from stardust we are made; to stardust we'll return. That is healing, of a kind.
( Each From Different Heights, by Stephen Dunn )
Grief doesn't leave us, but we find ways to shift the furniture around it; we learn to live with it, with its tempers and burning needs and silent solitary reflection, and find that perhaps after all it is not so bad a housemate.
Moment by moment, in the flow of our selves and our breath, we are building lives - and poetry is a means of preserving moments.
Mary Oliver says:
... to live in this world
you must be able
to do three things
to love what is mortal;
to hold it
against your bones knowing
your own life depends on it;
and, when the time comes to let it go,
to let it go.
Ashes to ashes and dust to dust: from stardust we are made; to stardust we'll return. That is healing, of a kind.
( Each From Different Heights, by Stephen Dunn )
Grief doesn't leave us, but we find ways to shift the furniture around it; we learn to live with it, with its tempers and burning needs and silent solitary reflection, and find that perhaps after all it is not so bad a housemate.
Moment by moment, in the flow of our selves and our breath, we are building lives - and poetry is a means of preserving moments.