I am reminded of Rabbi Rachel Barenblat's recent post The spirital work of wrestling with the both/and, in particular

I'm far more interested in the ideal of "resilient listening," which allows a person and/or a community to live with tension and to hold multiple perspectives at the same time.

Do the poets you've cited here have sites or poems online you might link to?

I look forward to reading through your full paper this weekend; thank you for sharing it here.